I was reading some old posts on a few naturist forums and in the single male category there was some talk about how single males get the short end of the stick in many private nudist venues. Some of it struck me as kind of strange, so i went back through some of my old posts and found an old post where i lightly discussed the issue here: Single Male Nudists.
Now what i found interesting about some of the posts were a few black males still were actually worried about private and public venues due to fears of being gawked at because of the size of their penises. One guy stated he was worried that he may get assaulted by a group of angry male spouses and fathers whose wives and daughters did more then look for small moment. I found this to be silly, because i seriously doubt that would happen. If this is actually the cause of the single male exclusion in some private venues then maybe the rules should state this: Due to safety concerns for single male patrons we are barring them from the resort because we are worried about the roving eyes of peoples spouses and children. (sarcasm for those who don’t get it)
Another several posters also complained about some rules about piercings. One guy complained that he had been asked to take his penis and scrotum piercings out when he visited a private venue. He stated he found it very sexists when there were women with piercings in their labia and nipples, and they were not asked to remove their piercings. Well i took offense until i read a few more posts and discovered that said male had heavy piercings in his penis and scrotum. He looked kind of freakish and was basically wearing hoop earrings in these piercings and he looked like some loser that frequents a Folsom St. parade. So i could understand why the venue would ask him to remove them. Its one thing to be different. Its another to draw attention to yourself, especially your genitals.
Now as far as piercings for females and males go i believe any private venue has the right to make the rules as they see fit. Nipple piercings and heck maybe even vaginal piercings may be okay so long as they don’t stand out so much that anyone can see them from a number of feet away. I’ve seen a .gif on 4chan of some mature BDSM woman who had so many heavy piercings in her outer and inner labia that she made noise like a key chain or wind chimes when she walked. I wouldn’t want to see that in a public or private nudist venue, or hear it coming for that matter! LOL!
I think we need to think as single people about a certain modicum of modesty in our nude appearance, even with piercings. A good rule to follow may be this: If you can’t wear the piercing(s) to work then you probably shouldn’t wear it to the nudist resort.
Just my two cents on this matter.